Why do we beat the crap out of ourselves when we’re not perfect?
Why do we think that we deserve anything less than unconditional love?
Because so many of us have a limited mindset.
We wouldn’t think of treating anyone else like that.
Can you imagine judging your kids like that? Expecting them to be perfect in order to earn your love?
Of course not. You’ll love them no matter what. That’s not to say you might not get a little frustrated or feel disappointed sometimes, but withhold your love? Never.
A limited mindset tells you that you should know better. A limited mindset believes that BECAUSE you’re not perfect (in other words because you just happen to be human — you drew the short straw there, am I right? LOL), imperfections will limit you. It will keep you from achieving your goals.
BUT … It’s a limited mindset that will ACTUALLY limit you, NOT the imperfections.
Think about anyone you admire or anyone that’s successful in this business. They’re not perfect, either. And they are successful, not in spite of their imperfections, but more often than not, BECAUSE of their imperfections.
The people that inspire us the most, inspire us, not because they’re perfect, but because they’re real and imperfect and they did it anyway. When people try to hide the imperfections or we don’t see people with imperfections, we compare and despair. That makes us feel demotivated, defeated and uninspired, which results in INACTION.
An abundant or unlimited mindset doesn’t believe that just because you know better you should do better.
An abundant mindset believes you’re already doing better. When you don’t think you should do better, guess what? You actually DO BETTER.
Because you’re focused on what you’re doing better, it will grow better and better and BETTER.
A limited mindset focuses on what you’re doing “WRONG”, so guess what grows?
Evidence that you’re doing it wrong.
A limited Mindset says you should do better. “You know better. What’s wrong with you!?!”
An ABUNDANT Mindset says, “Hey – kudos to you — you’re doing better and better! Keep up the great work!”
A limited mindset says, “You idiot, what are you doing? if you keep this up, you’ll never achieve your goals!”
An ABUNDANT Mindset says, “If you keep this up, you’ll reach your goals in no time! Keep going!”
A limited mindset says, “You’re limited – you’re not good enough — you’ll never get farther along because you’ll never be perfect. You’ll never get there, so might as well give up and cut your losses.”
An ABUNDANT Mindset says, “You don’t have to be perfect to get farther along. you can be where you are and still get there. Just keep going.”
Which mindset do you want fueling you?
Do you want a mindset that fuels you to achieve your goals or do you want a mindset that limits your goals?
It’s your call.
It’s my mission to make sure that women like you recognize the value you have within you and that you give yourself permission to fully access that value to create the business you want making the money you want. If you’re stuck, not sure how to translate what you have to offer into making money in your business, it’s probably because you’re another unfortunate victim of a limited money mindset.
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